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Is there anything that makes it difficult to hope for a better future in your marriage? How do you think you can let go of this?
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Making the consistent effort to be better. Praying for God’s help
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Not really. Thanks God we are learning how to treat each other better and yes, there are conflicts in every marriage, mine is not an exception, but I think that marriage is not about my husband being the source of my joy or vice versa: is God who gives me joy, is God who makes me happy.
I think that as we continue loving each other knowing that our spouses are a gift from God and most importantly, obeying God we will be able to find solutions and ways to make our marriage work.
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There are challenges and frustrations in any relationship. But I’m very optimistic and have not lost hope.
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No, my marriage is faring ok, although it is not a perfect one. There was a season when it was a bit difficult, when one of us was working in unpredictable shifts which change every week. We gave up trying to do things together, since nothing can be planned against this schedule. That was tough for me, as one of my love languages is quality time. But we had had help before through marriage workshops and mentoring, so we were able to navigate that period instead of losing all hope.
#choices
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Yes. I have been in this relationship for three years. He is still completely self centered and a taker. Little to no effort has been made to grow or change or even to learn. I can either accept him as is and just move on or hope and pray for God to give him a paradigm shift and awaken him to what he must do and be to be the man of God I need.