Is there anything that makes it difficult to hope for a better future in your marriage? How do you think you can let go of this?

[Austin]

I am a poor listener and send the message I dont care? I need to learn to stop what I’m doing and listen and reply so she knows I have listened and heard

[Austin]

Repetitive discounting of what I would like to do. I need to recognize that I cannot do as much as I would like to do.

[Austin]

I try to control all aspects of our marriage AND IN TURN GET IN THE WAY OF gOD

[Austin]

Yes, a trust issue and not letting go af the past.
We have to forgive and leave the past because we can’t change it and look forward for new things.

[Austin]

baggage from past experiences, family experiences