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Is there anything that makes it difficult to hope for a better future in your marriage? How do you think you can let go of this?
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Trusting God that all will be fine in spite of the situation that we or I may be going through u
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My spouse and I have been married and together for 33 years, in 2022 on the weekend of his retirement, I found out that he was having a six year love affair. In faith I am trying to forgive him but it is made worse, by our now adult children, in the healing process due to their trauma of the situation. They will not have any dialogue with their dad and struggle with my decision to try to heal our marriage.
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We have been married 20 years and 11 months. When he was working I had so much time on my hands to do a lot of stuff. Talents and volunteers. Then he retired. We worked as a team, still had differences but have learned to work them out together. Have had family interference a lot. But I realized I was making that situation worse by doing anything for everyone and didn’t learn to let go and let them do their own. I can see where my husband has stood by my decisions even if he didn’t agree. He also kept telling me to let go of what wasn’t mine to own. Then COVID came and let my business down and everything I had worked hard for. Then had to give up on something I had no control over. Then 5 years ago my husband got cancer. Trust me I wrote a lot of letters to my husband and God. There is power in writing when you feel you don’t have a voice. It took some work on my part to stay in control. My husband didn’t want everyone dependent on me and on the other hand, he has been dependent on me and always says he is sorry. Without God, we would have never made it this far. I have seen a total change in my husband in his walk with God. From not going to church with me and for the past I believe 18 years he has been faithful in going to church with me. In the toughest of times and not we always have to hope. Letting go of what was meant not to control.
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at this time my marriage is great. Better every day.
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No. With Christ I hope for everything I desire