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Is there anything that makes it difficult to hope for a better future in your marriage? How do you think you can let go of this?
Austin replied 3 months, 2 weeks ago 60 Members · 62 Replies
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When we dwell on past hurts that we have done to one another and bring them up as if they are in the now. Holding on to the pain from the past and not letting go or trying to make the other pay for the past. Also where my husband is at in his faith in God, sometimes that worries me even though I know it should not. I want us to both be spiritually maturing but I have to recognize that is the job of the Holy Spirit not me and I need to do my job and keep praying for him and believe God WILL do a good work within him for the good of this family and his Kingdom.
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Well me and my girl are really different in age. I worry that I won’t have as much time with her as I’d like, in the long run, like by the time we have children. What I hope is that I live a really long life. I hope God grants me a very long life and I ll appreciate every moment I can.
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I am learning that my parents struggled in their marriage. My marriage with my wife and I has been growing stronger. We need to focus on us, and our future and let go of other family relationships.
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I think what makes it difficult to hope for a better future is when you refuse to let go of the past.
For us to let go of what ever problem or challenges,
1. Let go of the past
2. Think more about how you treat each other than what is causing the conflict.
3. Let go of any baggage that both of you are carrying
4. Believe God for miracle of healing your marriage. -
There are always challenges in all marriages that causes one to have questions. But if I am willing to let go of old baggage and instead focus on how I treat my wife there’s hope for a better future and the relationship between my wife and myself. If I die to self and live for Christ, I can let go of the old baggage.