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Is there anything that makes it difficult to hope for a better future in your marriage? How do you think you can let go of this?
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The fact that my wife said the switch is broken and she cant come back from it. She said the only hope we have is to coexist unitl the kids leave, then divorce. I have spent 15 years trying to apease her to make her happy, that I have lost myself in the process. She exudes no hope.
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We have extreme bitterness, guilt, shame, resentment issues and unresolved hurt. It is completely disfunctional for at least 15 years. I get blamed for everything that does not go her way. Seek forgiveness and trust God to work in both of us
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Unfaithfulness has been the biggest issue in our marriage. My husband puts his exwife, kids, pornography, and work first before anything including God.
At the beggining, I would take the lashing and insults quietly. Then, I started lashing back and I have become bitter. I am working on forgiveness but, this has been painful and hard. -
Yes, after many years of marriage it seems that I am the only one who wants change or even to have a conversation about our marriage. I think I’ve let go of the feelings of despair. Maybe the situation will not change but my outlook has greatly improved.
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Yes, reacting to constant nagging, put downs and sarcasm.
The way I react is wrong because I respond with anger.
I believe things can change if I continue to behave in a loving manner.