Is there anything that makes it difficult to hope for a better future in your marriage? How do you think you can let go of this?

[Austin]

We’re in a season where my wife is the primary care giver to her parents who live in their own bungalow with an unmarried daughter who is the “bread-winner”. My in laws are in their mid-90s, physically frail and one of them is mentally frail too. They have two live in helpers who need training and supervision continually. In this season our marriage takes second place to my in laws’ needs. May the Lord help us to adapt together in our marriage so that this season is one we can appreciate positively, knowing it’s unlikely to last more than 5-8 years. I need to let go of a picture of marriage which doesn’t adapt to the current season.

[Austin]

Not taking the time to actually work on my marriage. Busy schedules and children take away a lot of time and by the end of the day I don’t have the energy or want to spend time talking. Identifying the problem and with prayer, find the time to actually talk and spend quality time with my wife.

[Austin]

I found that being open and honest prior to marriage is the key to a better marriage. Keeping one’s baggage hidden can cause hardships down the line. Yes, current issues may come up, but if your marriage is based on Biblical concepts it should be easy to get through those conflicts with the help of Jesus.

[Austin]

Past hurts
Emotional damage
Past failure
Past regrets
Unforgiveness

Let it go by believing God’s words over my feelings. The just shall live by his faith, not feelings. Although my past is damaged, my future is bright because I am taking the necessary steps to renew my mind and view my marriage the way God intends.

[Austin]

I love my husband and I pray and hope our marriage can overcome all negative obstacles. I pray I can control my tongue, gain self control, and always respect my husband.