Of the three basic “don’ts” of SoulCare taught in this lesson, which one do you most often do? Why do you tend to do this? Of the three basic “do’s,” which one do you tend not to do, and why? - Discussion Forum - Artos Academy (BETA)

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    Of the three basic “don’ts” of SoulCare taught in this lesson, which one do you most often do? Why do you tend to do this? Of the three basic “do’s,” which one do you tend not to do, and why?

    Austin replied 1 month, 3 weeks ago 75 Members · 79 Replies

  • Austin

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    05/11/2023 at 20:48

    I most often and naturally offer support. I tend to do it because I am very passionate about the "best" in people. Prior to this course I thought I was anchoring them in truth but now understand now how that can trivialize someones thoughts, feelings and emotions.

    Suprisingly, I actually do all of the "do's" naturally and consistently.

  • Austin

    Administrator
    05/11/2023 at 08:00

    I think among the 3 don’ts, I am particularly inclined to offer support eg affirming or praying with him. I think I do it so that he doesn’t feel like what he is going through reflects badly on him, or that he is all alone in this troubles.
    Among the “do’s” that i don’t particularly do well, I think it is the reflecting thinking while listening to him. Maybe it is the fear of silence, or I am too quick to want to be able to say something appropriate in that situation.

  • Austin

    Administrator
    04/20/2023 at 21:02

    I am too often quick to give advice or try to provide solutions. I have almost never paused to reflect or pray or take a beat, but it certainly sounds very wise

  • Austin

    Administrator
    04/12/2023 at 08:37

    Give advice

  • Austin

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    04/09/2023 at 00:40

    I do advise and I don’t reflectively think as often as I should for the same reason. I feel inadequate to help when there is empty space in conversation. May like they are thinking, wow, he really doesn’t know what to say am I really that messed up? I think often i have leaned on my own understanding for solutions to spiritual problems in others and in my own life rather than trusting in the LORD with all my heart.

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