A deeper desire or rather search to find out why a friend who often goes for spiritual retreat is so ‘carelessly make dishonoring decisions.’ I went to the same retreat center to find out if this is the same Jesus we believe it, and it ended up I had an encounter with Jesus that change my relationship with, and a quest of desiring a deeper intimacy with Him. The one time quest became a regular time-off to simply put all things aside and just to be with Him, and hear from Him. When one is closer to Him, we are closer to Home, and the strive cease and grace is exercised in relating to people.