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What tends to be your goal in a conflict with your spouse? Has anything in this lesson changed your perspective on conflict?
Austin replied 5 months ago 74 Members · 75 Replies
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I am not an augmentative person; my goal was to resolve the conflict in a logical manner buy I just learned that I must also be concerned about my wife’s feelings as well. A perspective that I missed for years.
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I would like to have conflict resolution in my marriage (still waiting/not married now but in the future would like to be) I like the listing that were mentioned in the lesson, these are the things I will bring to my marriage.
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Real examination of myself shows my goal is to show that my way or feelings about a particular issue is right or better than his. I know I sometimes must crush his spirit and now having the question in my mind “does my interaction with my husband make him feel closer to God, more empowered and encouraged” the answer is and embarrasing “no”. I’m convicted and shame of myself but hopeful that through this lesson I can change the way I handle conflict so we both can grow in our relationship with Jesus and with each other.
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Sorry, that post didn’t come out right. My husband is not a Christian. He tends to have explosive anger. God has made it better but I just wanted to never happen again it’s very traumatic when he does it. And all I do is avoid him for a while.
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My goal is to solve a conflict with out getting nasty Ness for my husband and yelling for my husband