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What tends to be your goal in a conflict with your spouse? Has anything in this lesson changed your perspective on conflict?
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we have differences every now and again but it is accepted in each other – since we know we are unique individuals and we are very aware of what makes it or doesn’t. We give and take continuously.
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My goal is usually to try to get thru it to avoid senseless debate and what i consider dumb stuff. This lesson has taught me that i should see the process of our interaction rather that focusing on what is our conflict. I should aim at letting it lead us close to God, helping my spouse feel empowered and encouraged. (show attention, approval and appreciation)
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To find a solution.
know your triggers
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My goal is normally to ensure that I am understood and not blamed. I have learnt to be more concerned about the process of resolving the conflict, by caring for my spouse’s feelings abd needs, this way I will be honouring God.
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My goal is to be able to communicate without being judged or feeling like I am not listening to my spouse.