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What tends to be your goal in a conflict with your spouse? Has anything in this lesson changed your perspective on conflict?
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In a conflict I will always reassure her that she is the love of my life and the greatest love God has for me through her. There’s not much that we fight about. But remembering that always confirms us together.
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Normally I try to think I’m right, and look to show that. It’s important, though, to focus on the process and the communication.
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Resolution or a plan in short an agreement that is is harmony.
As looking the process the most important things are lost like being loving in process when I am so focused on the answer. The means that are important have been forgotten to get to resolution. -
What tends to be my goal in a conflict with my spouse is trying to make him see reason to what I am saying or what happened but now with this lesson, I have learnt that the most important thing in any conflict is to think more on how you treat each other than whatever is causing the problem or trying to think how you to win the battle. Relying on God for help.
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I need to focus on my wife, rather than trying to win battles, when there are the inevitable hurdles, with her. I’m told in the New Testament to love my wife like Jesus loved the Church. Working toward solutions, with love in mind, rather than trying to win battles will help me as I focus on this perspective in conflict with her. I like this perspective & hope I choose to put this viewpoint into practice.