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Why do you think people often struggle with a feeling of helplessness after the loss of a relationship?
Austin replied 6 months, 3 weeks ago 41 Members · 44 Replies
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When you’ve invested time, energy, and have feelings invested in a relationship and it ends, there can feel like a huge loss. With that loss comes the feeling of helplessness, but turning to God and not blaming yourself for anything can be a huge help in these situations, it’s not all your fault. It takes two in a relationship, and sometimes God removes people from our lives because He sees and hears things we don’t. He’s protecting us. Trust God and His plan.
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Feelings of helplessness may come after a relationship ending, because they might feel like they will forever be alone.
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If you look at Genesis such as the flesh will become one, or. The flesh becomes in twined, when you separate from a significant other its is really ripping apart of you as you separate, that part of you has been lost and If that person played a big part of support in your life it can leave you with a feeling of helplessness.
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Having a feelingnof helplessness it’s well advisable but at put all on God so at the Spiritual realm your other significant other will understand what he or she has done so they will be a rehabilitation of discipline of any wrong should be right. So I think it’s okay to feel worry and helplessness so God will know how to sort it out. Remember if you don’t cast all your worries on him they won’t be hope for you to carry on.
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People feel helpless because the ‘known’ is no longer there. There is a comfort and a peace, knowing you can turn to a particular individual and when there is a loss, that individual is no longer available to assist with answers, provide a listening ear or share thoughts. It’s an emptiness, it’s unfamiliar, it can appear as unexpected.