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Why do you think people often struggle with a feeling of helplessness after the loss of a relationship?
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Disconnection from God. Worry about the future.
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We were together for all those years, all though my ex relationship was a bad relationship. I built my exrelationship on my parents marriage. That was wrong. I see that now. And that is okay. I saw my mother’s worry every time my dad left to go somewhere. I passed on that worry. I should have read Matthew 6 several times during that relationship.
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After my first marriage of 17 years, my husband left me for a young girl who was the age of my oldest son. She was pregnant. I felt abandoned and felt like God had abandoned me. I went to church. I studied the Bible with others, but God left me. He desserted me. That is how I felt. But it wasn’t God who left the relationship, it was my ex husband.God didn’t dessert me. He stayed with me through each step of the divorce process. God protected me and my 3 children.
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Because you kind of feel like you have lost a part of yourself and a part of your identity.
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Perhaps they are too dependent on that person or that person is the decision maker. Perhaps that person has encouraged the person struggling to give up other relationships and therefore there is no one to turn to. Also, perhaps by loosing the relationship a person may not have confidence to move forward.
